Boys to Men
( Posted on special request ) In some of our African societies, the title man is earned and not merely the result of attaining a certain age. The crowning moment for participants is when a young man is taken through an elaborate ceremony which culminates in them becoming entitled to the rights and privileges that accompany the status of being an African male adult. Those who take shortcuts or make any attempt to avoid going through this rite of passage that graduates boys to men are in most instances referred to in derogatory terms as cowardly boys up to old age. Girls and women, through subtle messages, are advised to shun getting married to such as they are not man enough.The societal pressure is all over with the ceremony held in high regard such that some use it as one of the key tests towards political leadership. Local artists are not left behind on this. They further rub it in by composing music with tunes laden with deep messages emphasizing the importance of undergoing the pas